Dating advice for over 50

We all age, and as we age our bodies and desires change.So when a man 20 years older approaches me with a sense of entitlement and expectation that I do the opposite of what I set out to do, simply to please his appearance expectations, I find that irritating and invalidating to older women. Please be prepared to learn that most women over 50 are fairly secure in themselves and are able to appreciate beauty in its many many different human forms.

Many of us also have reached a pinnacle in our careers, and all of a sudden may be engrossed in the project of a lifetime.Just because we have been going out every Friday night, don’t assume we lose interest if we are unavailable for a month or two.We may have a parent who is dying, or a close friend who is sick; we may need to take off for 2 months to be with them.I have lost count of how many times I heard the question, “Any competition?” or “Are there any other girls at school after him?

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